Dating Pool Updates!

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Hello there...

So, last time I talked to you, I shared I was too lazy to fall in love or meet people. Well, I have some updates...

Allow me to digress for a bit... I promise you the updates has not been forced upon me, but I feel I need to share context of why relationships can impact how you take criticism differently based on whether they come from a place of love, curiosity, or ridicule!

I have a very lovely relationship between my Mum, sister, and I. Booooy! When I tell you they bring the need to change my relationship status, they come swinging, it's always all love and reassurance, so I'd never take it as pressure. I can't even begin to tell you how hard my bestie has been trying to set me up on dates. We'll see! 😅

That being said, the last year has been an experiential kind. I've been stepping out of my comfort zone and into the dating pool. I even tried online dating and met a couple of interesting guys... Interesting is the key word here. 




I have attempted a few dates but some didn't make it past the talking stage coz if you don't know, I should tell you about just how many perves exist on these online dating sites. It's unsettling.

I hear stories, but I must admit, the few dates I've been on, thanks to my instincts, have been with gentlemen thankfully!

So, I'm not making any promises or getting you excited about a wedding or triplets soon... Lol! 😂 But, I'm glad I stepped out, and still stepping out. Boy, I do step out for real! 

Funny thing is... I'm way past 27 bridesmaids dresses 😂😂😂. I intend to lead the pack y'all! I joke a lot being the right #guestforhire but for real, invite me to your weddings, I'll come baring fashion gifts and another for you! It's my excuse to dress up and buy expensive shoes! 😅

Anyway, where were we? So, I'll keep trying this dating pool, and I look forward to having lots of fun while I'm there. 

Let's do this! Shall we Mr. Right? 

Love,
Essy

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