FRIENDSHIP UNCURTAINED

The best time to make a friend is when you do not need one. Friendship comes in a very weird and unplanned manner. Think of how you became friends with your own best friend, where and how you met, who said hi, or did you just start talking. Was it funny, fun, or totally out of place? What was your first impression of them? were you introduced to each other or did you just make friends?

Two words best describe this; a relationship and mutual. So, there has to be a relationship between two or more people, who hold a mutual understanding for each other.

A relationship is an association between two people that may be short or long term. it may also be intimate or interpersonal. Mutual on the on the hand means  reciprocal, with respect or towards the other.

Friendship in essence then means you have the other person in mind, you consider how they feel and how they are doing at all times. Friendship is simply selfless.

A friend is someone who you first know well, understand enough to like them and one you can trust. That person, you will always feel free to share your worries, secrets and furure plans withou fear of betrayal or even thought of it.

A friend is that person who will tell you that hurtful truth to your face for the sake of making you a better person. A pretender will never tell you the truth with the fear of being cut off supplies, or benefits. You may be mad at the painful truth, but sooner or later you will learn tyo appreciate that simple advice that could be life-changing.

 A friend is that one person who will still be there even if you asked them to leave. There are moments we are set under pressure and would like to be left alone to think through that situation. A real friend will insist on being there with you and offer help to you. That friend will only leave at that point when it is the only best thing to do.

To all my lovely friends

Friendship does not discriminate on whatever grounds. It does not support wrong, nor does it condone evil. It dwells on making things right, it corrects wrong. Friendship offers support and grows daily, it also finds true meaning as time goes by and in that way it gets stronger.

We are all human, and we are bound to make mistakes, it is only natural to find ourselves in mistakes. A good friend will take a point to apologize if they do you wrong a,d will be sincere in asking for forgiveness.

I thank God I have such awesome friends in my life and will always appreciate and love them. It is a rare occurrence to honestly feel that someone is a real friend and deep in your heart appreciate their honest effort in meaning to be there with you and for you in both trying and amazing moments in your life.

Feel really blessed if you share the same feelings. If not, do not work towards finding real friends, be the real friend and you will grace true friendship, it all begins with you.