EACH TEAR HAS A LESSON

"No mistakes, no heart breaks can take away what you are meant to be"

- Mary J. Blige-

I write this not because I just want to write and fill my blog with one more post, but because of the story each one of us has to tell about how hard we have fought to be 'The Best'. I am personally at that point where all I need is to realize my potential and push myself to the very end to bring out the best in me. 

You may relate your current episode of  life to mine. Well, this reminds you of how many times you have been told you cannot, you are just a dreamer, you are too ambitious,  may be you have even been overlooked by the people you expect to lead you to your dreams. Newsflash, no body leads no one to their dreams it is unto us to pick up our pieces and fix them at the repair junction. 

Once you have shed a tear for something, you should be able to get up, think through the way forward and make sure, I repeat, MAKE SURE! You have learnt from that experience and that you should never find yourself in such. Go out of your way seek advice

 from the relevant people when you really have to, ask questions and when nobody seems interested, go lock yourself somewhere and come up with a solution, that is the reason why you have the thing called "BRAIN" in your head. Oh, It is meant to think your way to solutions.

Well, this does not mean that the struggle is over, actually more  will come, and the more will be tougher, rougher, harder, and might break you. You should always be ready to stand up no matter how hard you have been hit, or even burnt. When you come out stronger you will learn to believe in yourself more, trust in you a bit more and the best result will be that you can later stand up to defend yourself in a calmer and mature manner. 

After this period, you will learn to love the burn, the tear and embracing the heart break will be more natural.

The mistakes we do over and over again is lack of self trust, self-beating and being so unforgivable to ourselves. You have been told in the Church or Mosque to always forgive other people. But, I think the first step every individual should learn is to understand you as a person, forgive you and love you.

Here is what I think, you cannot change what people think of you or how they take you, what you can change is your period and level in life. The minute you become better, the minute you hug success, even your best enemy will have something positive to say about you. In the end that is what you wanted people to think of you as something special, there! work towards that, you will attain it. You are what is stopping you. 

Each tear should definitely have a lesson, and the lesson should have reason as part of the ingredients. Forget what people say, may be this is harder than is put, but what I think matters, is what you think of yourself, if you believe you are nothing close to good, no one else can change that but you. Begin embracing the fact that there is only one you in the whole wide World, again this can be really hard, but well trying has always been the first step to one realizing the full potential. 

Come on now, go out there, GO GET YOUR DREAMS, I AM TOO.

LEARN THE LESSON THAT OUGHT TO BE LEARNT BY EVERY TEAR SHED!!!

Below watch the Official Music Video "Each Tear" By Mary J. Blige ft Jay Sean