Self-Love: Why put yourself first?

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I don't know what they told you, but put yourself first. How you love yourself teaches others how to love you. So, for you to love others, it means your cup has to run over, in essence, what's in the cup is yours, and the bit that runs over is for the other people. To put it in perspective, you can't pour from an empty cup, you got to have something to share with the world. 

Photo Credit: www.letgetgoing.com

It's difficult to put yourself first sometimes, but it's essential. Taking care of yourself first means setting boundaries and limiting distractions so you can better focus on what's important (e.g. your work, your relationships, your health). 

It can also mean setting aside time for yourself each day to do what you enjoy – whether that's going for a walk, catching up on your reading, or simply taking some time for yourself to relax. 

Putting yourself first isn't always easy, but it's worth it if you want to be successful and happy.

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